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Nancy Harris Mclelland
Poetry, Prose, Opinions about Aging from an Ex-cowgirl Octogenarian.
My all-time favorite quote
“All that is really necessary for survival of the fittest, it seems, is an interest in life, good, bad or peculiar.” - Grace Paley
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So, you think you are special
For all our conceits about being the center of the universe, we live in a routine planet of a humdrum star stuck away in an obscure...
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Don't take this the wrong way, but...
You can never start life afresh, because you're hopelessly stuck in this life; there's no breaking through to another one in which...
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Find someone you disagree with...
“Yes, I think we must be entirely open to the world. We should live fully in it and ask a lot of questions and try to maintain an open...
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As if we can ever, really, get it together
Loose ends can never be properly tied, one is always producing new ones. Time, like the sea, unties all knots. Judgements on people are...
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Inner life, dream life...
"I live an exciting life unseen." Zora Neale Hurston
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Lonelines vs. Solitude: what's the difference?
Another 20th century thinker who is concerned for the loss of experience in modern life is Hannah Arendt. Arendt thinks modern life,...
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Sometimes they come back to haunt us
“For some people, being dead is only a relative condition; they wreak more than the living do.” Hilary Mantel, ”The princess myth: Hilary...
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A good (but hard) reason to keep a journal
“I think we are well-advised to keep on nodding terms with the people we used to be, whether we find them attractive company or not....
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Goldfish Brain
Entrepreneur and venture capitalist Paul Graham on the importance of being at least a little bit contrarian: "Let's start with a test: Do...
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We eat when we are sad. We eat when we are happy.
“I’m always interested in the intersection between cooking and grief…” Olivia Potts, The TakeAway, Food, Drink and Recipes
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In Front of Your Nose
``We are all capable of believing things which we know to be untrue, and then, when we are finally proved wrong, impudently twisting the...
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Poet Looking for Glory? Don't Bother
Publishing a poem is for many a kind of glory, even as it likely won’t be read by more than 10 people, and will most probably not be...
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Stasis — not a good idea
Where people fail is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death. Anais Nin
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Stay away from toxic people
People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. Maya Angelou
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There's so much good advice out there...
About 99% of the time, the right time is right now. No one is as impressed with your possessions as you are. Don’t ever work for someone...
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Sheldon Kopp's Eschatological Laundry List
A Partial Register of the 927 (or was in 928?) Eternal Truths. This is it ! There are no hidden meanings. You can’t get from there to...
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Quit tsk,tsking social media!
"From bebop to doo-wop to hip-hop to TikTok–you gotta go to know. So that’s what I’m doin’!” Composer and producer Quincy Jones,...
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In case your New Year's resolutions are already crap
Writer Jeanette Winterson on second chances: "I know now, after fifty years, that the finding/losing, forgetting/remembering,...
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"Self Help" in air quotes
I have come to consider most of what passes for “self help” literature today as obscene because it ignores the complexities of life,...
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