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Nancy Harris Mclelland
Poetry, Prose, Opinions about Aging from an Ex-cowgirl Octogenarian.
Wine and Chocolate, of course!
She was known to be a gourmet. For her 117th birthday, she ate foie gras, roasted capon, cheese and a dessert similar to a baked alaska....
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Enjoy yourself. It's GrrEighter than you think
In the end, loving yourself is about enjoying your life, trusting your own feelings, taking chances, losing and finding happiness,...
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What is happiness, anyway?
What is happiness, anyway? Does anybody know? It’s taken me 80 years to figure out that it’s not a tranquil, sunlit realm at the top of...
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Nick Cave at Sixty-five
We’re often led to believe that getting older is in itself somehow a betrayal of our idealistic younger self, but sometimes I think it...
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Maybe it's not so bad to be called a hag...(I'm not convinced)
"… in folklore, the hag, while appearing to be the epitome of people’s fears about aging, is actually a positive archetype. 'The hag is a...
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It's NOT the same old you...
You are not the same person you were a year ago, a month ago, or a week ago. You are always growing. Experiences don't stop. That's life....
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To hell with the twenties, eighty is the time to go a little crazy!
Your 20s (80's) are the perfect time to do a few things that are unusual, weird, bold, risky, unexplainable, crazy, unprofitable, and...
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It's always going to be comic, rather than tragic
“Old people like to give good advice, as a consolation for the fact that they can no longer set bad examples.” ...
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The artist as energizer bunny
“I’ll go on until I fall over,” David Hockney, 85
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If Herbie Hancock has advice, take it.
LASTLY, WE HOPE THAT YOU LIVE IN A STATE OF CONSTANT WONDER As we accumulate years, parts of our imagination tend to dull. Whether from...
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Are you surprised by what you remembered--in the middle of the night? This morning while you were brushing your teeth?
The events in our lives happen in time, but in their significance to ourselves, they find their own order…the continuous thread of...
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Seek out the odd balls, for heaven’s sake!
Investor Josh Wolfe on the best advice he ever received: “The best, most useful advice I ever got was from Jim Watson, [the scientist...
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Aging into Health
“I feel healthy. I feel stronger in aspects of my being that I did not have when I was younger. So I call it aging into health — find...
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And he did!
“Life teaches you how to live it if you live it long enough.” Tony Bennett, a legend who died at 98, July 2023
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And maybe reflection on our reflection, if you know what I mean..
We do not learn from experience. We learn from reflecting on experience. – ...
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You tell 'em, coach
Sleep in? … “Lay there and stare at the ceiling?” he groans. “I’m 84. I’m not sure how many days I’ve got left to live, but I know one...
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You GrrEighties out there...
Walk like you know where you are going.
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Stay interested. Stay interesting.
Let us simmer over our incalculable cauldron, our enthralling confusion, our hotch-potch of impulses, our perpetual miracle — for the...
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January 12th, 2024
Everyone will be old in their own way. And what does anyone really know about being old until they are old themselves? It’s just how we...
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May 13, 20241 min read
We're NOT the same, you and I
Everyone will be old in their own way. And what does anyone really know about being old until they are old themselves? It’s just how we...
Nancy Harris Mclelland
May 13, 20241 min read
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